As part of sex week here on Flip!, we have piled together all your sex questions together for a special addition of Higson Helps. We picked five of the best and got our lovely Katie to answer them for you.

Dear Katie I’m 21 years old and been with my girlfriend Chelsea a few months now. We have sex about three or four times a week, and while she always has orgasms i cant seem to cum. I know that it’s not that I can’t cum because she always makes me orgasm through oral sex. I was just wondering if there might be something wrong with me. I’m completely STD-free and healthy. What can I do?

Danny, Birmingham.

Katie Says

Hey Danny, I’m happy to hear you’ve been checked out (or atleast thats what you have implied) and you clear of anything. I’m also happy to know that your not a selfish lover, no-one wants one of those. I’m not a qualified doctor/nurse, so if my advice doesn’t seem like its working for you, then please go and speak to your GP.

As you can cum through oral sex with your girlfriend, then you can clearly enjoy yourself with her, I personally think it may have something to do with the excitment of sex. I don’t think your enjoying it as much as Chelsea, you may be worried that she wont finish, or maybe you have a hidden depth and don’t know how to tell your girlfriend what you really want and like.

If none of this is correct, please, please contact your GP and get it checked out medically.

Hope that helps, all the best Katie x

Katie, I’m a month away from turning 18 yet am still a virgin. I never had intercourse and have never given or received oral sex. I feel like a total geek. I feel like i am going to be a virgin for the rest of my life. What can i do?

Anonymous, Bournemouth

Katie Says

Hey, please, please, please do not feel like you need to give up your viginity, to some it may seem like nothing but to most they do cherish it. I think you should take you time, please do not feel geeky about it, be happy that your willing to keep it for a special girl/boy, thats the best way. If you ask anyone who just threw it away (like myself) if they’d like to turn back time and have waited, they would.

Hope thats helps you mate, Katie x

Hi Katie, Ive been with my boyfriend about 6 months now and he is getting really hair down there. So much so that when he puts it in me it tickles or i gag on his hair. I dunno how to approach the subject with out him getting moody on me. What would you suggest?

Abbey, Liverpool

Katie Says

Hi Abby, this is a touchy subject, but also, an interesting one.

No-one wants that, do they? I think you should try and make a joke out of it to begin with, then maybe a game? Get his opinion on his hair do then tell him yours. If he does get all moody ask him straight-’if that was my style down there, would you want to go down there?’.

If hes speechless, expect a short cut, if he’s a smart arse about it, then just tell him, your not venturing down stairs unless Mr. Winky gets his long awaited cut!

Hope thats helps Abby, good luck! Katie x

Dear Katie, My boyfriend stays silent during sex. I like to make a lot of noise, but he won’t say a word not even during orgasm. When hes drunk i get the odd moan and deep breathing but now am lucky to get that. I know hes enjoying it by the look on his face but why wont he make any noise?

KT, Newcastle

Katie Says

Hi KT, your boyfriend just may prefer the quiet life. If you know hes having a good time, why do you need a noise? He may even like just listening to your sexy groans and moans? To be honest I think you should leave him to his smiles and lip biting, and you keep making as much noise as possible!

Katie x

Hi Katie, My Boyfriend masturbates alot, at least 3 times a day. It sort of freaks my out a little bit. Is it normal?

Lily, Isle Of Man

Katie Says

Hi Lily! Anything sexual is normal..apart from the obvious..but masturbation is definatly normal. Althought, once a day is exceptable, twice, only if its the first time in awhile, three-times-a-day-everyday….with a girlfriend is abit odd i have to say, but he may just have a very, very high sex drive. If it freaks you out, tell him. If he has any feelings for you at all he will listen to you and co-operate with you, if he doesnt, i think that if it freaks you out that much, i’d go find myself a guy with more things to do other then have a cheeky session or 3…a day!

Hope thats helps, Katie x