Ok so here goes Katie. i’v met this guy at a friends place and we really got on, and we got off with each other and took it no futher, we started talkin textin and on facebook, so we’d planned to go out to the pub with our mutual friend and all night we’re gettin on really good, started kissing again, we sat down and he kept being really sweet put his arm around me kissin my neck again the night ended and we carried on talkin. We arragned to go out just me him, and his mates fucked off at the start of the night we had a wicked night he ended up comin back to mine, we ended up havin sex and it was amazin. We spent the mornin chillin out, then again we went out again and my friends who i’d gone out with pissed off and left me in the middle of Birmingham, and this lad and his mate we’re goin home but he wouldnt go and leave me to wait on my own for 3 hours for my bus home, which i think is sweet, so we stay in the club and he’s bein really sweet and all that again, and he’s just the nicest guy and really do like him…. BUT he keep mentionin he’s doesnt want a bf and i was the same up until i met him, i want to tell him i like maybe take him out on proppa date with out friends, nd even start seein each other maybe, but i’m scared to say anything just incase he goes funny with me cuz i dnt want to lose his friendship cuz he’s a loverly lad and we have a laff when we’re out but i like him abit more than that and some of things he does makes me think he does too but he’s so hard to read…. wot should i do…..

Zac

Katie Says

Hi Zac, my advice is go for it!

So OK, you don’t want to lose this amazing friendship and the fooling around, and he’s said he doesnt want a boyfriend at the minute…but he might be scared to asked you, and is thinking the same about you, you never know do you?

Seriously, whats the worst he can say, no? And so what if he does, you carry on as normal, unless you know it’ll affect you alot, then dont just jump in at the deep end, take it slowly, you know?

In this day and age, I think people are too….scared to take the first step and I personally believe we need to bring back the spontinaty of love, life and laughter back into the noughties !

GO FOR IT!

All the best, Katie x