Dear Katie, There is this boy that I fancy so much but he has a girlfriend. I can’t stop thinking about him and when I say he is on my mind 24/7 that’s what I mean. Is there any way or anything you could recommend that could give me some tips on how to act around him to make him really like me, think I’m special and that he ought to go out with me? I know that sounds really selfish but please help

Helena

Katie Says

Hey Helena, eek to this situation! If this guy is happy with his girlfriend im afraid your just goin to have to leave him be! Just think if this was a girl after your boyfriend, how would you feel?

On the other hand if you know hes not happy, then just act yourself around him, talk to him, let him know what you like and ask him what he likes, laugh with him and let him know your a good friend, if this isnt working for you just tell him how you feel and hope he feels the same way.

Please, please, please remeber his girlfriend though! Its not nice to be cheated on or have your boyfriend taken away from you! Please promise me and yourself you will not take this any futher until he has parted ways with his current girlfriend, cheers Katie x